Animedragon

Happy New Year

Happy New Year

Attending college online while working full time sounds rough.  I hope you're able to make the most of the holidays and relax, enjoy yourself and recover,

I understand where he is coming from. I'm really not good at talking to people, I can sit for ages trying to think of something to say and hoping the other person will say something I can comment on. This happens in both 1-1 meetings and group gatherings. Once I've got to know the person/people a bit I don't have so much trouble talking to them, so hopefully this is what will happen with you two soon.  

That sounds good.  Don't worry about being nervous, you never know, he might be just as nervous. I could be the first time he's formally asked a girl out.

Yes, I'd like to see it.

That's really good to hear.

Sounds good.

It's a bit like a ghost town now with streets lined with faded signs of busier and happier times.

I'm sure I saw a tumbleweed bowling down the main street yesterday.

Hey, that's really Good News that you didn't have any nightmares, long may that continue.

I hope that when you talk to your doctor again she'll be able to give you some good advice and help.

I'm sorry to hear that you're still having the nightmares. 

That's a sort of viscous circle isn't it, the nightmares give you anxiety and the anxiety feeds your nightmares. I really hope that the new medication helps with both. 

So, things are moving on. Sounds promising 

Hey. Great news, I'm so happy for you. Let's hope that this new medication will do the business and you'll soon be feeling a whole lot better. It's also good news about the anti-nightmare medication, that should help a lot because getting a good nights sleep is an important part of any healing process.

I will continue to remember you in my prayers.

That's really Good News. I hope and pray that the specialist doctor will be able to identify what is causing your health problems and provide you with the treatment you need.

YAY!! Excellent news. It's SOOOOO good to hear some positive news from you about your health  I'm very happy for you and hope that things will continue to improve.

We're all indecisive at various times. Sometimes it's hard to decide what to do, be it a big decision like what job apply for or what school/college to apply for or a small decision like do I go out or stay home today.  It's ultimately a matter of weighing up the options and trying to choose one of them.

As for being scared of asking for help from others. I think this comes down to wanting to be able to be in charge of your own life, and society does tend to push the idea that we should be self-sufficient and that asking for help is a burden for others. But in reality people are often quite happy to help, but they don't like to be seen as interfering so they don't usually offer. So don't be afraid of asking for help when you need it.  

Don't they just! It's nearly Christmas and it feels like January was not that long ago  

I'm glad I was able to suggest something that would help you.

I'm sorry that I don't have any answers to your conditions, but I can at least listen and perhaps make a suggestion or two, I will also continue to remember you in my prayers each day.

That sounds pretty bad. I sometimes forget what day it is, but that's just a side-effect of being retired and having no real structure to my weeks. But to feel that weeks are like months and days are like weeks is a whole different situation, and one that's much more worrying. I'm sure you're right in that it's somehow linked to your memory fog problem.

I'm not sure what to suggest, but perhaps one of those digital clocks that show the time as well as the date, name of the day and month. one of those should at least keep you informed about day it is and how the days are progressing. Over time this might help to sort of re-synch your internal clock to the outside worlds clock.

I hope this helps a little bit.

I glad it helped a bit. Choose something fun that you can have a good laugh at.

I don't have all the answers, but I'll listen.

I think we all get like that at times and it's not a good situation to be in.  When I get like that sometimes I watch a favourite anime or look for something interesting on YouTube or Facebook. It doesn't really cure the lonely feeling, but it does tend to distract my mind and give it something else to think about.

I hope your feeling of loneliness will soon pass. 

In the meantime remember that you have friends who care about you.

That sounds bad.

Sometimes I'm glad I didn't go to college.

Yayyyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For electricity being back on .  It's quite amazing, and a bit worrying, how much of our modern life depends on having electricity. 

It sounds like you're having a really tough time and going through some upsetting and depressing situations at the moment.

I hope that your appointment on the 25th can give you some answers and you will get the help you need to find peace and stability in your life.

In the meantime I will remember you in my prayers each night.