Hi and welcome to AF. Enjoy your time here. Some animes I suggest for that are:
Anohana: The Flower We Saw That Day
Horimiya
The Devil is a Part-timer.
I think these 3 are pretty wholesome / fun animes.
No, we are both maxed at 150. I have a slightly better weapon but she's a magic user and my character is a tank build. I can solo any boss because of that.