Those are really nice photos, you've got a great view from the top of your house.

You're absolutely right. Holding onto the past sometimes feels easier than admitting it's over but I'm really happy to know you're giving it your best effort and making a decision to move on and let yourself find happiness. It takes so much courage to do that and I know wherever you go next sis you'll find some happiness.

Remember you are a baddie and you're going to go out there and slay queen  

Perfectly awesome pics too I love the view from your place. 

Really great photos Ren, as always you take excellent pictures and you really have a gift for it. 

Like Lillie said I'm also glad that you're taking steps to moving on and realizing that you deserve happiness because you do. Whomever you find that with will be a very lucky person. 

It's about time  No I won't say "I told you" here because I understand that letting go of some things is a journey and not been an easy one for you. I think still it will be a bit hard to do this for you but with time you'll be able to. Keep focused on those positive things that are right in front of you now and the positive people and trusting your feelings and you'll be okay I really believe that. 

I also like these pictures I always thought these ones were really good ones. It would be nice when the pool opens again it's the main thing I miss in the Winter here lol. 

18 hours ago, Animedragon said:

Those are really nice photos, you've got a great view from the top of your house.

Thanks ~! I really love it up there. There's great views no matter which way you are looking. 

11 hours ago, Sarada said:

You're absolutely right. Holding onto the past sometimes feels easier than admitting it's over but I'm really happy to know you're giving it your best effort and making a decision to move on and let yourself find happiness. It takes so much courage to do that and I know wherever you go next sis you'll find some happiness.

Remember you are a baddie and you're going to go out there and slay queen  

Perfectly awesome pics too I love the view from your place. 

YASSSS I AMMMMM ~ or.. something like that lol but tyty  I'm going to try my best anyways ~

7 hours ago, Sasuke said:

Really great photos Ren, as always you take excellent pictures and you really have a gift for it. 

Like Lillie said I'm also glad that you're taking steps to moving on and realizing that you deserve happiness because you do. Whomever you find that with will be a very lucky person. 

Thanks Ori  Dunno about that but I really am tired of living in the past with, well, you know lol 

3 hours ago, Zeref said:

It's about time  No I won't say "I told you" here because I understand that letting go of some things is a journey and not been an easy one for you. I think still it will be a bit hard to do this for you but with time you'll be able to. Keep focused on those positive things that are right in front of you now and the positive people and trusting your feelings and you'll be okay I really believe that. 

I also like these pictures I always thought these ones were really good ones. It would be nice when the pool opens again it's the main thing I miss in the Winter here lol. 

You say I told you so wayyy too much lately anyways ¬.¬ lollll ~ I don't think it'll happen overnight but I'm working on it and realized that it's time to move forward and I think that's the first and best step I can make. 

12 hours ago, Sakura said:

Thanks ~! I really love it up there. There's great views no matter which way you are looking. 

YASSSS I AMMMMM ~ or.. something like that lol but tyty  I'm going to try my best anyways ~

Thanks Ori  Dunno about that but I really am tired of living in the past with, well, you know lol 

You say I told you so wayyy too much lately anyways ¬.¬ lollll ~ I don't think it'll happen overnight but I'm working on it and realized that it's time to move forward and I think that's the first and best step I can make. 

Trying your best is good enough even if you have set backs on some days. Anytime you need to talk it out I'm there for you! 

15 hours ago, Sakura said:

Thanks ~! I really love it up there. There's great views no matter which way you are looking. 

YASSSS I AMMMMM ~ or.. something like that lol but tyty  I'm going to try my best anyways ~

Thanks Ori  Dunno about that but I really am tired of living in the past with, well, you know lol 

You say I told you so wayyy too much lately anyways ¬.¬ lollll ~ I don't think it'll happen overnight but I'm working on it and realized that it's time to move forward and I think that's the first and best step I can make. 

Acknowledging it is the first step and you've actively made a plan to do something about it so that's even bigger.

20 hours ago, Sakura said:

Thanks ~! I really love it up there. There's great views no matter which way you are looking. 

YASSSS I AMMMMM ~ or.. something like that lol but tyty  I'm going to try my best anyways ~

Thanks Ori  Dunno about that but I really am tired of living in the past with, well, you know lol 

You say I told you so wayyy too much lately anyways ¬.¬ lollll ~ I don't think it'll happen overnight but I'm working on it and realized that it's time to move forward and I think that's the first and best step I can make. 

It will not happen overnight but yes you will progress and look back and be glad that you took these steps. You will get there. 

10 hours ago, Sarada said:

Trying your best is good enough even if you have set backs on some days. Anytime you need to talk it out I'm there for you! 

Thank yuu sissy  Honestly thank you because talking to you on the phone tonight was exactly what I needed lol ~

7 hours ago, Sasuke said:

Acknowledging it is the first step and you've actively made a plan to do something about it so that's even bigger.

I think the hardest part is sticking to that plan and not falling back into the same thing just because certain things aren't happening the way I want them to. So when they aren't my instant reaction is "This is absolutely a sign from God I should not move forward and should continue to just wait for this person to come back because if this other thing was going to work out it wouldn't keep feeling this confusing".

2 hours ago, Zeref said:

It will not happen overnight but yes you will progress and look back and be glad that you took these steps. You will get there. 

Oh yeah I've definitely noticed that ~ it's more of an uphill battle and I keep sliding back down the hill lmao 

11 hours ago, Sakura said:

Thank yuu sissy  Honestly thank you because talking to you on the phone tonight was exactly what I needed lol ~

I think the hardest part is sticking to that plan and not falling back into the same thing just because certain things aren't happening the way I want them to. So when they aren't my instant reaction is "This is absolutely a sign from God I should not move forward and should continue to just wait for this person to come back because if this other thing was going to work out it wouldn't keep feeling this confusing".

Oh yeah I've definitely noticed that ~ it's more of an uphill battle and I keep sliding back down the hill lmao 

We need to revisit that conversation Next topic of conversation: not wasting time on the ones that don't match your energy.  

17 hours ago, Sakura said:

Thank yuu sissy  Honestly thank you because talking to you on the phone tonight was exactly what I needed lol ~

I think the hardest part is sticking to that plan and not falling back into the same thing just because certain things aren't happening the way I want them to. So when they aren't my instant reaction is "This is absolutely a sign from God I should not move forward and should continue to just wait for this person to come back because if this other thing was going to work out it wouldn't keep feeling this confusing".

Oh yeah I've definitely noticed that ~ it's more of an uphill battle and I keep sliding back down the hill lmao 

It sounds more like you're just looking for any old excuse to not let go which is easy to do in this situation. Just keep reminding yourself that's not true, and if you need us, you know your friends are here for you. 

21 hours ago, Sakura said:

Thank yuu sissy  Honestly thank you because talking to you on the phone tonight was exactly what I needed lol ~

I think the hardest part is sticking to that plan and not falling back into the same thing just because certain things aren't happening the way I want them to. So when they aren't my instant reaction is "This is absolutely a sign from God I should not move forward and should continue to just wait for this person to come back because if this other thing was going to work out it wouldn't keep feeling this confusing".

Oh yeah I've definitely noticed that ~ it's more of an uphill battle and I keep sliding back down the hill lmao 

It's okay to that's part of the process. 

On 2/26/2025 at 9:26 AM, Sarada said:

We need to revisit that conversation Next topic of conversation: not wasting time on the ones that don't match your energy.  

No no no I have it together now. Or well, I'm getting it there lol 

On 2/26/2025 at 3:02 PM, Sasuke said:

It sounds more like you're just looking for any old excuse to not let go which is easy to do in this situation. Just keep reminding yourself that's not true, and if you need us, you know your friends are here for you. 

That's fair because I know that's what I've been doing. It's a work in progress but I'm really trying  but thanks Orikins  

On 2/26/2025 at 6:54 PM, Zeref said:

It's okay to that's part of the process. 

Yeah I'm gonna just keep doing my best that's all I can really do ~ 

13 hours ago, Sakura said:

No no no I have it together now. Or well, I'm getting it there lol 

That's fair because I know that's what I've been doing. It's a work in progress but I'm really trying  but thanks Orikins  

Yeah I'm gonna just keep doing my best that's all I can really do ~ 

You've got this

On 2/28/2025 at 9:43 PM, Sakura said:

No no no I have it together now. Or well, I'm getting it there lol 

That's fair because I know that's what I've been doing. It's a work in progress but I'm really trying  but thanks Orikins  

Yeah I'm gonna just keep doing my best that's all I can really do ~ 

I'm proud of you for that just trying. 

On 2/28/2025 at 9:43 PM, Sakura said:

Yeah I'm gonna just keep doing my best that's all I can really do ~ 

You got this serey

Look you've got us shut in nerd losers behind you, you can't fail

3 hours ago, Sasuke said:

Look you've got us shut in nerd losers behind you, you can't fail

Speak for yourself. I go outside and have a social life

10 hours ago, Sakura said:

Thank you all, really  You're definitely my best friends and I really appreciate all of you so much and I love you lots ~ Thanks for everything. 

And we love you

15 hours ago, Sakura said:

Thank you all, really  You're definitely my best friends and I really appreciate all of you so much and I love you lots ~ Thanks for everything. 

I've said it before, but I'll say it again - if you need anything, just to talk, you can call me. I know sometimes it helps to hear someone instead of just typing and I'm happy to listen and talk with you through anything you're going through right now. Your friends will always be here for you, just like you've been for us. 

8 hours ago, Sasuke said:

I've said it before, but I'll say it again - if you need anything, just to talk, you can call me. I know sometimes it helps to hear someone instead of just typing and I'm happy to listen and talk with you through anything you're going through right now. Your friends will always be here for you, just like you've been for us. 

Tyty Ori ~ Yeah you're right it really does, though I think I'm a mess to talk to on the phone right now lol I will call you tomorrow because yeah just talking to someone really does help a whole lot x.x