Thank you, I ended up in quite a rural place in the US, it's been lovely so far.
I think I understand what you said better now. I have never had any particular opinion about sexualization, because I have never minded (and even seen) it. I didn't even know that the word/ concept "sexualization" existed before I started partaking in English-speaking social media (and in my language, there exists no word to describe the concept, it has to be translated from English). And I could never tell if an anime scene/ character is "sexualized" until a post on Reddit pointed it out.
That's why I initially felt quite assured to see you wrote
I thought that meant those people were similar to me and didn't really "see" that concept. But I forgot that in this country sexualization is a political matter, and "almost anything" expands far beyond the realm of 2D entertainment I was thinking about.
And, I think I agree with you.