My role model is Tanaka from "Tanaka Kun is Always Listless" and Ohta from the same anime.
Tanaka is always at his own pace, enjoying his life as himself in the most listless manner while captivating those around him with his brazen listlessness. Ohta is always there for ya boi Tanaka, and is such a responsible and respectable friend. I found those two to be the oasis of life in a setting where in real life everything is fast paced and stressful, and I wanted to be more like them.
I guess I want to be cool and intense like certain anime character types as well like Levi, Lelouche, Kaiki, etc, but those beings seem so... otherworldly, I guess.