LemonBoi Posted December 4, 2017 Share Posted December 4, 2017 So i'm a very busy person, i don't get to meet a lot of new people and the ones i do are not my type because its usually at clubs and drinking with friends and other High School kids Even tho i have an active and a social life style i still want to use some of my free time doing lazy fun stuff like watching Netflix, some anime , gaming , basiclly spending time online . The thing is that i spend most of my time w people that are active like me so every day i have school, training, a bit of guitar practice and then on work days i have an hour or 2 of free PC time, in that time i have been struggling to make online friends which i used to find it easier to talk with then real life friends. Also i am kinda sad because the perfect cute nerdy girl i want is not gonna be outside for me to meet her . But rather inside watching anime and gaming Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LemonBoi Posted December 4, 2017 Author Share Posted December 4, 2017 OH hello there man i did not expect an answer this fast :D! Yeah i have real life friends and i appreciate them but there is something about those night long talks over team speak i used to have w my online friend , we could just stop gaming and talk for hours whiles sending memes and links , and when i was younger those Skype calls w cute girls also ahahah i miss that ... i don't regret getting out of my comfort zone to work out, look/feel better and meet real people but still id be lying if i said i didn't miss those kinda talks :P. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LemonBoi Posted December 4, 2017 Author Share Posted December 4, 2017 OH sorry yeah the thing is ... here where i'm from watching anime and spending time on PC is considered lame ... i don't rly care what they say because i still socialize and workout and stuff but i'm 17 and yeah ahaha i cant ask people (girls) do u game / spend time online without sounding kinda lame and giving off the stereotype "no life, gamer" VIBE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beocat Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 On 12/4/2017 at 4:55 PM, LemonBoi said: OH sorry yeah the thing is ... here where i'm from watching anime and spending time on PC is considered lame ... i don't rly care what they say because i still socialize and workout and stuff but i'm 17 and yeah ahaha i cant ask people (girls) do u game / spend time online without sounding kinda lame and giving off the stereotype "no life, gamer" VIBE. Really? I would think that would be a really fast method of weeding out the ones you aren't looking for. Truth be told, as a girl who talks about anime and gaming, I have found that the people who look down on gaming oftentimes are not worth my time (they tend to be very self-absorbed people in my experience. If you are looking down on a gamer, what makes you think yourself so much better, after all?). Hmmm...not really sure what kind of high school you're in to be honest. When I was in high school, you weren't popular unless you were smart and being "geeky" was not considered a disadvantage to your character. If anything, it added to your character. My high school class had big plans, that being said haha 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAO LILDOOP Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 Internet social life is where its at in my opinion, I have no intention of making friends outside of online. If you want to meet other nerds and the like you should just tell your real life friends to leave you alone more so you can have more time online. Its not hard to find fellow nerds, geeks and anime/video game fans online, they are everywhere. On 2017-12-04 at 5:55 PM, LemonBoi said: OH sorry yeah the thing is ... here where i'm from watching anime and spending time on PC is considered lame ... i don't rly care what they say because i still socialize and workout and stuff but i'm 17 and yeah ahaha i cant ask people (girls) do u game / spend time online without sounding kinda lame and giving off the stereotype "no life, gamer" VIBE. This is ridiculous, if you meet a girl and you feel ashamed of gaming and don't tell her how does that make anything better? Don't you plan to keep gaming? Yes, I assume you do and if she cant accept that then I say she is not worth the time. Gaming is an honorable past-time in my opinion, there is a lot that goes into it as I continue to learn as I study all the frame data of over 50+ character's in Tekken, its time consuming and requires a lot of skill as well as smarts. People who don't realise this are ridiculous, they look down on gamers as being losers although they must have hobbies as well, I mean seriously, how is reading a book or knitting better than playing a video-game? Its not but people will try to say it is with really no proof that it is, its just that they have a stereo-type against gamers. Be proud of being a nerd and don't feel ashamed to tell a girl you like that you are one, that's how I think. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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