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5 minutes ago, Sakura said:

if someone wants to talk to me they got hands to type and if they want to do something they can ask me "hey do you wanna come do such and such thing?" I'm not anymore because I'm sick and tired of reaching out to people without anyone making any effort to do so back ~ and I'm tired of asking people to do things and they either don't show up or don't want to or whatever so I'm just done lol 

I get where you're coming from on this, I have similar issues in a, slightly different, situation.

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20 minutes ago, Sakura said:

I'm kinda over it lol ~ when I have to message someone every day and if I don't they never do. It's just like okay clearly I'm not a priority in your life so you're about to not be one in my life anymore and I think that's fair. 

I also find it extremely difficult to ask someone if they want to do something with me (I'm always worried they don't really enjoy spending time with me) and it kinda confirms it when you're continously rejected lol ~ 

Like with people like Pessi or Ori it's different I'll yell at them until I'm blue in the face to come do this thing with me 🤣 but it takes me years to get that comfortable with someone. 

Just to add my 2 cents, 2 cents or 2 sense? I don't know this English phrase and never know if they mean money cents or sense as in common sense? Someone help me with this phrase 😆 

But back to what I was saying, you shouldn't have to. If someone is your friend and wants to be around you they'll be a back a forth. If you don't message them they'll reach out to you or vice versa. You shouldn't have to always be the one arranging things either. If someone is a friend they'll be wanting to hang out with you. Anyone who doesn't isn't as invested in your friendship as you and I agree you should step back from these. 

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4 minutes ago, Zeref said:

Just to add my 2 cents, 2 cents or 2 sense? I don't know this English phrase and never know if they mean money cents or sense as in common sense? Someone help me with this phrase 😆 

But back to what I was saying, you shouldn't have to. If someone is your friend and wants to be around you they'll be a back a forth. If you don't message them they'll reach out to you or vice versa. You shouldn't have to always be the one arranging things either. If someone is a friend they'll be wanting to hang out with you. Anyone who doesn't isn't as invested in your friendship as you and I agree you should step back from these. 

It's two cents but I'm not sure why we say that huh never thought about it lol 


Yeah I'm basically doing that ~ if someone is messaging me like obviously I'm not gonna just never message them first. Like if someone messages me one day I'll message them the next or something like that but I mean I kinda figure that's what people that wanna talk to each other do XD 

I'm pretty much just not asking people to do things anymore though ngl because it makes me feel bad every time I do and they don't it feels like okay we'll they hate me and all I do is bother them lmao 

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18 minutes ago, Sakura said:

It's two cents but I'm not sure why we say that huh never thought about it lol 

It's derived from the English phrase "Here's my two-penny worth" it basically means "here's my contribution for what it's worth".

24 minutes ago, Sakura said:

I'm pretty much just not asking people to do things anymore though ngl because it makes me feel bad every time I do and they don't it feels like okay we'll they hate me and all I do is bother them lmao 

I usually feel bad when I ask people if they want to do things with me and the regularly turn me down or just don't reply to my messages. I know my friends have their own busy lives to lead and I know they don't hate me and I don't expect them to put me before their family and such like but it's a bit depressing to get a refusal almost every time. To be fair to them a couple do, on occasion, ask me about doing something together.

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What game are you guys talking about @Sasuke @Sakura?

1 hour ago, Eris said:

Good f--k em'. Forget em'. You don't need em'. If people don't wanna reach out and talk to you when you don't, or they don't ask you to do things, or they don't follow thru with plans. F--k em'. Forget em'. You don't need em'. There are people that value your friendship and your time you can spend your efforts on. 

He ain't wrong haha if that's going on just stop wasting your time if they genuinely aren't trying to stay in contact with you back or hang with you. 

14 hours ago, Ayame said:

He is cute now I'll agree ʘ‿ʘ thank God he grew out of whatever he was going through before! xP Didn't I meet him? He's the streamer, isn't he? 

Perhaps alone or asleep but not when it comes to keeping these RS boys in shape and in line. A girl can't be a doormat after all when she's a war leader ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ

 

Good luck to all of you in your Summer Cup endeavors, I know you'll do so well (°⌣°)

When you are going to level up and join us Rose? 😜

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9 hours ago, Lucky said:

What game are you guys talking about @Sasuke @Sakura?

He ain't wrong haha if that's going on just stop wasting your time if they genuinely aren't trying to stay in contact with you back or hang with you. 

When you are going to level up and join us Rose? 😜

They're talking about Adventure Quest Worlds 

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5 hours ago, Sarada said:

They're talking about Adventure Quest Worlds 

Yea AQW.

 

21 hours ago, Sakura said:

Nah like Rosie said you gotta be a strong yelly girl when you're a war leader 😆
 

 

Ahhhh okok I'm gonna get a party or something then 


If Jase wanna do something Jase will have to message me and tell me he wants to do something and when because I don't message anyone first anymore and I certainly DO NOT ask anyone to do anything anymore :)

if someone wants to talk to me they got hands to type and if they want to do something they can ask me "hey do you wanna come do such and such thing?" I'm not anymore because I'm sick and tired of reaching out to people without anyone making any effort to do so back ~ and I'm tired of asking people to do things and they either don't show up or don't want to or whatever so I'm just done lol 

I'll tell Jase that Jase better get off Jase's ass and ask you 🤣 
And I do agree, don't waste your time with those who can't send you a simple message or make plans with you.

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3 hours ago, Sasuke said:

Yea AQW.

 

I'll tell Jase that Jase better get off Jase's ass and ask you 🤣 
And I do agree, don't waste your time with those who can't send you a simple message or make plans with you.

YEAH YOU GO TELL JASE. JASE WANNA TALK JASE MESSAGE ME. I ain't messaging people or asking them to do something with me anymore. If they wanna talk they will if they wanna do something they'll ask. That goes for everyone u.u Other than a very few people.. okay so not everyone.. BUT MOSTLY EVERYONE ~ 

I also feel like we should make an AQW thread because I wanna post my screens and there's nowhere to post them except hijacking the RS thread lmao 

18 hours ago, Lucky said:

What game are you guys talking about @Sasuke @Sakura?

 

cOME PLAY AQW WITH ME OR I'LL STAHB YOU WITH A LEMON IN YOUR SLEEP

I also think I'm gonna quit going on the forums here idk  kinda hate this place anymore. 

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2 hours ago, Sakura said:

YEAH YOU GO TELL JASE. JASE WANNA TALK JASE MESSAGE ME. I ain't messaging people or asking them to do something with me anymore. If they wanna talk they will if they wanna do something they'll ask. That goes for everyone u.u Other than a very few people.. okay so not everyone.. BUT MOSTLY EVERYONE ~ 

I also feel like we should make an AQW thread because I wanna post my screens and there's nowhere to post them except hijacking the RS thread lmao 

cOME PLAY AQW WITH ME OR I'LL STAHB YOU WITH A LEMON IN YOUR SLEEP

I also think I'm gonna quit going on the forums here idk  kinda hate this place anymore. 

You're going to leave the forums after finally convincing me to join? o(╥﹏╥)o

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9 hours ago, Sakura said:

I also think I'm gonna quit going on the forums here idk  kinda hate this place anymore. 

😭 Please don't go, this place won't be the same without you.

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9 minutes ago, Sakura said:

I think I talked to you about this too about how the forum just seems to not be the same anymore :/

It's better than it was when I joined, but recently there has been a subtle change in it that I can't quite put my finger on.

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9 minutes ago, Sakura said:

And some people are just c r e e p y and it's super uncomfortable imo

I agree. It's such a shame when a small number of people spoil things for the rest of us.

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2 hours ago, Zeref said:

 I know what you are meaning and the girls here shouldn't get on and be subjected to that. It should just be a forum for making friends and talking about anime and other interests. Not harassed about dating. 

I totally agree with this. If people want to find dates they should go to one of the many dating sites/apps. It is totally unacceptable to harass the girls on here for dates.

2 hours ago, Zeref said:

I notice that too. I miss the way the forum felt back around last Fall and Christmas. It seemed we had a much more closer knit group at the time and people interacted more with each other.

That's it exactly. The question is how do we get back to that state?

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