Well, I mean I don't think you should need to change yourself for the sake of somebody else. If she likes you, the way you are, all imperfections included, I think all lights green, why the hell are you not with her yet. Know what I mean? And if she has a checklist that has impossible goals for you, I don't think it's worth it. It really comes down to: are you happy, is she happy, and are you both giving equal amounts of effort in trying to start a relationship. It's your call dude, but I sincerely hope you succeed in seduc-uh I mean, in winning her over ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°).