Failed Love Stories

[Evil Bunny of Doom]

In an effort to counter @Xyro Donatus fluffy thread, I decided to start my own. Here, however, you can post tales of rejection and break up and diss your exes and feel good I don't judge!!!

 

 

I don't have any tearful stories to share since I've never been in a relationship... BUT I have been asked out a couple of times (?) (and just felt it wasn't right) so I majestically turned them down.

 

ok, here we go.

 

So, guy #1 happened during my second year in high school. We'd known each other for several years (even though we weren't classmates or even at the same school) but we were never really close or hanged out much. He's the sort of friend you say hi to once in a while and maybe chat a bit but nothing more. And yet one day in November 2013, we were out with a bunch of others after school and he was like following me around and trying to hug me and I was like 'wtf are you doing dude?'. And then he was like 'I like you, plz go out with me' and he had this puppy face on and stuff.... Needless to say, I was torn between getting embarassed and laughing my a** off. It kinda came as a shock because back then, I didn't think it was possible for anyone to like me (my confidence level was much lower) so I obviously thought he was joking and was quick to turn him down. He was rather persistent though...

 

Flash forward six months later he was still nagging me about the thing. Perhaps if he'd been honest I might have considered it.... but you can't try to get a girl to like you for a long time AND HAVE GOD KNOWS HOW MANY OTHER GIRLFRIENDS IN THE MEANTIME. He's actually quite well known around these parts for being a pervert and changing girlfriends often . He's fun as a friend but not recommended for a serious relationship.

 

I have to admit, though, I DID go out with him once. It was more like a friendly outting than a date but yeah.... The main reason I agreed is because that day I had a fight with my ex best friend (maybe I should also make a thread about long and emotionally abusive frienships, too) and really wanted a distraction... so I pretty much used him in a way ;-; (yeh, I am THAT rotten). But the thing didn't go so well for me (karma being a b**ch). That's because he almost noticed something about me that I don't want people to notice (Bunny's ultimate secret of destruction ) so I became extremely cautious from that point on and the whole thing was more nerve-wrecking than it should have been ;-;

 

Thankfully, after that he's never mentioned anything about going out again >.< yay!!!

#friendzoned

 

 

So, moving on to guy #2. This one's weirder.

 

Guy #2 was a friend I made in high school... because of a tree.... yeah, a tree. You see, I had drawn a tree on my desk with a pen and it was a REALLY GOOD TREE which I was proud of. My class and his class would exchange classrooms twice a week because the internet signal was weak in theirs and during certain classes that required internet access, they'd borrow ours. During said classes, he coincidentally sat at my desk and, apparently, he loooved my tree so much he decided to ask me to draw one on his desk as well. And that's about how we started talking more and more each day (which made quite the difference for him since he didn't really have any friends). We became close rather quickly cause we shared many similar interests like anime and music and I may have liked him a bit at first and I might would have thought about it if he'd asked me out then. (it was REALLY annoying tho that classmates that had never spoken to me before would come ask me if he's my boyfriend... like why the frickity fruck do you care????)

 

Anyway, as time passed and I got to know him better, he was not all that great and started regretting befriending him. That't because the guy was more trouble than he was worth. He's completelly clueless about everythng and has no will of his own. He can't even make simple decisions about himself and I'm worried about his future... Buuuut I still felt kinda sorry about him since I was his only friend and without me he'd be all alone ;-; And I think that's exactly why he developed feelings towards me (guys are so quick to misinterpret stuff).

 

When high school was nearing its end (around april) he started showing signs of, you know, having a crush, although at the time I was in total oblivion and could not care less since the aforementioned ex bestie had once again decided to play with my feelings, this time on a much larger scale. (....I just noticed that guys do have the worst timing ....) Yet, once again, I did what I had done with the first guy: I went out with him just to distract myself from being depressed in my room. Still, I really had no idea about his feelings and I thought I was just casually going out with a friend. But apparently he didn't.

 

Thus, one night, when we were chatting on facebook, he said he had something really important to tell me after the exam period was over and he even sent me a bunch of heart emojis (sth he had never done before) so I started getting suspicious. After discussing the matter with my friends the next day, I realised just how thick in the head I am for not noticing this sooner (they were both like: yeah, we knew it... it was about time you realised ).

 

After that, I proceded differently. I made sure to indirectly make it clear that I had zero intention of dating him or anything. Since he still hadn't confessed anything directly either, I couldn't just go and tell him to knock it off... When exams finally ended, (and being the rotten bi*ch I am) I did question him about it... like hey, you said you had something important to tell me, what is it? I was actually hoping he'd had the guts to at least admit it.. but nooooooo he avoided replying in the most ridiculous ways possible. Which meant my plan had worked, but I was just a tiny bit disappointed in him nonetheless.

 

Obviously, I never got the chance to flat out reject him ;-; too bad. I'm 100% sure he did it just to have the benefit of doubt. What a coward (says the one who would never confess her feelings either.... I am sooo rotten). Unfortunately, he still sends me weird messages from time to time just to piss me off but I can never get angry at him for long cause he's just so clueless that I'd be wasting my energy on useless matters. Frankly, I have stopped caring...

 

#megafriendzoned

 

 

And that's pretty much all my experience regarding dating.... And yeah, I am aware I am a cruel, mercyless female..... No, I have no intention of making it easy for the guy I will actually have feelings for in the future (if such a thing ever happens). In fact he's gonna have it waaay worse. *already feels sorry for the dude* Welp, if someone can't have you at your worst, they don't deserve you at your best.... (ofc I am well aware I have to, and I am willing to, put an equal amount of effort into it)

 

 

And with that, I am finally gonna wrap this post up (it's the caffeine in my blood doing all this, not me I swear to the god of cappuccino ;-; )

 

Stay safe and fabulous~

[Metro]

well majority of my experience is I like someone sort off and get rejected or I date them and they turn out to be gold diggers so eh I don't really care about love anymore. There is a few that liked me but it didn't feel right so I rejected them but yeah...... Kept it nice and short not going into details

Edited November 1, 2016 by Guest

[Xyro]

In an effort to counter @Xyro Donatus fluffy thread, I decided to start my own. Here, however, you can post tales of rejection and break up and diss your exes and feel good I don't judge!!!

 

 

I don't have any tearful stories to share since I've never been in a relationship... BUT I have been asked out a couple of times (?) (and just felt it wasn't right) so I majestically turned them down.

 

ok, here we go.

 

So, guy #1 happened during my second year in high school. We'd known each other for several years (even though we weren't classmates or even at the same school) but we were never really close or hanged out much. He's the sort of friend you say hi to once in a while and maybe chat a bit but nothing more. And yet one day in November 2013, we were out with a bunch of others after school and he was like following me around and trying to hug me and I was like 'wtf are you doing dude?'. And then he was like 'I like you, plz go out with me' and he had this puppy face on and stuff.... Needless to say, I was torn between getting embarassed and laughing my a** off. It kinda came as a shock because back then, I didn't think it was possible for anyone to like me (my confidence level was much lower) so I obviously thought he was joking and was quick to turn him down. He was rather persistent though...

 

Flash forward six months later he was still nagging me about the thing. Perhaps if he'd been honest I might have considered it.... but you can't try to get a girl to like you for a long time AND HAVE GOD KNOWS HOW MANY OTHER GIRLFRIENDS IN THE MEANTIME. He's actually quite well known around these parts for being a pervert and changing girlfriends often . He's fun as a friend but not recommended for a serious relationship.

 

I have to admit, though, I DID go out with him once. It was more like a friendly outting than a date but yeah.... The main reason I agreed is because that day I had a fight with my ex best friend (maybe I should also make a thread about long and emotionally abusive frienships, too) and really wanted a distraction... so I pretty much used him in a way ;-; (yeh, I am THAT rotten). But the thing didn't go so well for me (karma being a b**ch). That's because he almost noticed something about me that I don't want people to notice (Bunny's ultimate secret of destruction ) so I became extremely cautious from that point on and the whole thing was more nerve-wrecking than it should have been ;-;

 

Thankfully, after that he's never mentioned anything about going out again >.< yay!!!

#friendzoned

 

 

So, moving on to guy #2. This one's weirder.

 

Guy #2 was a friend I made in high school... because of a tree.... yeah, a tree. You see, I had drawn a tree on my desk with a pen and it was a REALLY GOOD TREE which I was proud of. My class and his class would exchange classrooms twice a week because the internet signal was weak in theirs and during certain classes that required internet access, they'd borrow ours. During said classes, he coincidentally sat at my desk and, apparently, he loooved my tree so much he decided to ask me to draw one on his desk as well. And that's about how we started talking more and more each day (which made quite the difference for him since he didn't really have any friends). We became close rather quickly cause we shared many similar interests like anime and music and I may have liked him a bit at first and I might would have thought about it if he'd asked me out then. (it was REALLY annoying tho that classmates that had never spoken to me before would come ask me if he's my boyfriend... like why the frickity fruck do you care????)

 

Anyway, as time passed and I got to know him better, he was not all that great and started regretting befriending him. That't because the guy was more trouble than he was worth. He's completelly clueless about everythng and has no will of his own. He can't even make simple decisions about himself and I'm worried about his future... Buuuut I still felt kinda sorry about him since I was his only friend and without me he'd be all alone ;-; And I think that's exactly why he developed feelings towards me (guys are so quick to misinterpret stuff).

 

When high school was nearing its end (around april) he started showing signs of, you know, having a crush, although at the time I was in total oblivion and could not care less since the aforementioned ex bestie had once again decided to play with my feelings, this time on a much larger scale. (....I just noticed that guys do have the worst timing ....) Yet, once again, I did what I had done with the first guy: I went out with him just to distract myself from being depressed in my room. Still, I really had no idea about his feelings and I thought I was just casually going out with a friend. But apparently he didn't.

 

Thus, one night, when we were chatting on facebook, he said he had something really important to tell me after the exam period was over and he even sent me a bunch of heart emojis (sth he had never done before) so I started getting suspicious. After discussing the matter with my friends the next day, I realised just how thick in the head I am for not noticing this sooner (they were both like: yeah, we knew it... it was about time you realised ).

 

After that, I proceded differently. I made sure to indirectly make it clear that I had zero intention of dating him or anything. Since he still hadn't confessed anything directly either, I couldn't just go and tell him to knock it off... When exams finally ended, (and being the rotten bi*ch I am) I did question him about it... like hey, you said you had something important to tell me, what is it? I was actually hoping he'd had the guts to at least admit it.. but nooooooo he avoided replying in the most ridiculous ways possible. Which meant my plan had worked, but I was just a tiny bit disappointed in him nonetheless.

 

Obviously, I never got the chance to flat out reject him ;-; too bad. I'm 100% sure he did it just to have the benefit of doubt. What a coward (says the one who would never confess her feelings either.... I am sooo rotten). Unfortunately, he still sends me weird messages from time to time just to piss me off but I can never get angry at him for long cause he's just so clueless that I'd be wasting my energy on useless matters. Frankly, I have stopped caring...

 

#megafriendzoned

 

 

And that's pretty much all my experience regarding dating.... And yeah, I am aware I am a cruel, mercyless female..... No, I have no intention of making it easy for the guy I will actually have feelings for in the future (if such a thing ever happens). In fact he's gonna have it waaay worse. *already feels sorry for the dude* Welp, if someone can't have you at your worst, they don't deserve you at your best.... (ofc I am well aware I have to, and I am willing to, put an equal amount of effort into it)

 

 

And with that, I am finally gonna wrap this post up (it's the caffeine in my blood doing all this, not me I swear to the god of cappuccino ;-; )

 

Stay safe and fabulous~

What's the difference between your best and your worst fluffy???

[Evil Bunny of Doom]

What's the difference between your best and your worst fluffy???

weeell i range from a cold hearted uncaring bas**rd to the cutest fluffiest bunny

Edited November 1, 2016 by Guest

[Xyro]

weeell i range from an cold hearted uncaring bas**rd to the cutest fluffiest bunny

So not Muvh difference then

 

Nahhh, just kidding, your always fluffy Fluffy

[Evil Bunny of Doom]

So not Muvh difference then

 

Nahhh, just kidding, your always fluffy Fluffy

 

.....a bunny with a lot of issues tho.....

[Xyro]

.....a bunny with a lot of issues tho.....

Yep.

 

I would advise at least 20 hugs a day and allot of food to keep you healthy ^w^

[Evil Bunny of Doom]

Yep.

 

I would advise at least 20 hugs a day and allot of food to keep you healthy ^w^

a lot of food will make me fat ;-; i like the idea of hugs tho.... although i hate being hugged

 

 

 

 

I'M THE DEFINITION OF PARADOX

 

 

 

GAAAAH

Edited November 1, 2016 by Guest

[Xyro]

As far as love stories go, I have never had one.

 

To be fair, I either don't feel worth anyone's time, or I don't ever feel like i have really had too much of a bond with somone. I mean, even the girls i have known for a while and liked, i have about as much confidance as a friking bole of jelly

[Frost]

Failed love story? My marriage. But I wouldn't catatorize what we had a love story, either. It was more or less two young kids that were both incredibly insecure, tying each other down.

 

I felt very prisoner-like in my marriage, but I didn't realize how I exactly felt until I started seeing what real love was like. My marriage was very unhealthy and toxic, but despite all that, I wouldn't say I regret it completely. I learned a lot about people and myself in the 5-6 years we were together. And if I can take anything away from it, it would be that love is a word, but the actions behind that word are what define it. Possessiveness is not love. And sometimes it takes bad love stories to lead you to a higher calling.

[RyePotatoes]

sometimes it takes bad love stories to lead you to a higher calling.

 

I do want to believe that those bad love stories can lead to a happy ending but then again, I'm still waiting for that to happen.

 

In two years, I had about four boyfriends. I have to admit I went crazy for them. I was hell head over heels in every single one of them. But then all those relationships resulted in breakups since I am writing about it now in a failed love stories thread.

 

It's scary to even think about having a new relationship after what I've been through. None of them lasted more than a month. I told myself and I'm still contunuing to tell myself now that maybe I'm really not cut out for that kinds of things.

Edited November 1, 2016 by Guest

[Frost]

I do want to believe that those bad love stories can lead to a happy ending but then again, I'm still waiting for that to happen.

 

In two years, I had about four boyfriends. I have to admit I went crazy for them. I was hell head over heels in every single one of them. But then all those relationships resulted in breakups since I am writing about it now in a failed love stories thread.

 

It's scary to even think about having a new relationship after what I've been through. None of them lasted more than a month. I told myself and I'm still contunuing to tell myself now that maybe I'm really not cut out for that kinds of things.

Part of living is our experiences that we encounter with other humans and relationships are part of that experience. I can honestly say I know how you feel, because I didn't even know what love really was until recently and I am 25. And even now, I can never be too sure or too guarded. The reality of these things are, that sometimes people are only meant to play out short chapters in our lives. But that doesn't mean that there is not going to be another chapter out there for you, or an even happier ending. Even if this chapter I am currently living comes to an end in the near future, I am learning to accept it's purpose in my life and move forward... And I think I can do that much easier now than I use to. Keep your head up - because life is too short to fear the worst. And never fear starting a new chapter because of the suspense. If you do that, you might not find your happiness.