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My debt is terrifying. Actually, it's not really that bad. I paid off my student loans finally, I just have some unfinished business in Ohio. It was a sudden move and I was under the impression it was taken care of, but wasn't. Besides that, it's mostly medical at this point. I got really sick around 19-20. And I was uninsured at the time. So I have some things I've been trying to pay off over the years. Some even got written off. '_'

NO SHAME IN MY GAME. AND A THROWBACK TO MY METAL FACE DAYS. BAM I was such an angsty little girl. Glad those days are over

well, dang. MEDIATOR PERSONALITY (INFP, -A/-T) Mediator personalities are true idealists, always looking for the hint of good in even the worst of people and events, searching for ways to make things better. While they may be perceived as calm, reserved, or even shy, Mediators have an inner flame and passion that can truly shine. Comprising just 4% of the population, the risk of feeling misunderstood is unfortunately high for the Mediator personality type – but when they find like-minded people to spend their time with, the harmony they feel will be a fountain of joy and inspiration. Being a part of the Diplomat Role group, Mediators are guided by their principles, rather than by logic (Analysts), excitement (Explorers), or practicality (Sentinels). When deciding how to move forward, they will look to honor, beauty, morality and virtue – Mediators are led by the purity of their intent, not rewards and punishments. People who share the Mediator personality type are proud of this quality, and rightly so, but not everyone understands the drive behind these feelings, and it can lead to isolation. Unlike their Extraverted cousins though, Mediators will focus their attention on just a few people, a single worthy cause – spread too thinly, they’ll run out of energy, and even become dejected and overwhelmed by all the bad in the world that they can’t fix. This is a sad sight for Mediators’ friends, who will come to depend on their rosy outlook. If they are not careful, Mediators can lose themselves in their quest for good and neglect the day-to-day upkeep that life demands. Mediators often drift into deep thought, enjoying contemplating the hypothetical and the philosophical more than any other personality type. Left unchecked, Mediators may start to lose touch, withdrawing into “hermit mode”, and it can take a great deal of energy from their friends or partner to bring them back to the real world. Luckily, like the flowers in spring, Mediator’s affection, creativity, altruism and idealism will always come back, rewarding them and those they love perhaps not with logic and utility, but with a world view that inspires compassion, kindness and beauty wherever they go.

Personal experience, yes. I've had multiple crushes on employees. Never my bosses, as most of them were women. And most of my crushes were on good friends that I began hanging with outside of work. I've dated two fellow employees, my first "love," his name was Jacob. And it ended very poorly and it actually ended up turning out alright because he ended up moving to Arkansas not long after I split. But the few weeks before he moved, it was pretty awkward. He even still made passes at me. Which made my work environment uncomfortable. The second was actually the man I married. I met him at my job. And despite everyone's warnings, I hooked up with him. We worked together for about a year before he got fired. And it made my job miserable, actually. Lol He was constantly jealous and starting arguments/scenes at my job. If I could redo those moments, I would have just stayed away from both. I feel like your work place shouldn't be clouded with your outside affairs. I mean, some people meet their soulmates at their jobs, I'm sure. But I just couldn't ever do it again. It also makes it hard when you end up being around a person 24/7.

Hey, man! Welcome to AF! hope you stick around!

You're a good Lil bro, but I have to disagree with this, Xyro. I feel like I'm a good person, but I never lie or cheat my own emotions or opinions. I'm an open minded person, and I gladly listen to others.. But I never sacrifice my own feelings. There's a difference. Being polite and well mannered doesn't mean I have to be a complete push over, either. Maybe I'm misunderstanding the point, but I don't know. I believe you can spare your own humanity and well being and still be considered "good". On a side note however, good is also a matter of opinion. So. There's that.

Welcome :3 Hope you enjoy your time here~

Thank you, Xyro-Kun, for being so kind hearted and positive. I needed to read this today. ^-^

Whuuut '____'

Welcome, friend! ^-^ Hope you enjoy your stay here~ Also, good luck in your journey!

Feeling happy. ^^

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Audi. If you could receive any gift from any person, what would it be and why?

I would probably bring the little mermaid to life. I wanna be a mermaid, dude. What is your one dream in life?

It sounds broad, but I really want to go everywhere and see everything. I want to be able to see beautiful places. But it has always been a dream to see Ireland. If you could make 3 wishes come true, what would they be?

Dream job would probably to be able to open an animal shelter. Or travel and be an artist. What do you think is the purpose of living?

BUT YOU CAN NOT CAUSE I WIN

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