Hallo hallo, welcome, welcome!
I think you've made a good decision with coming here. I spent a decent bit of time away from forums myself, and at the time I joined here I also poked around and in some cases joined several other anime forums and ... to keep a long story short, I found that this one had - by far - the most pleasant community, to say the absolute least.
It isn't the most active forum on the planet, to be fair, but when it comes to community stuff I think quality is very much preferable over simple quantity - I mean, it doesn't matter how popular a forum is, how many posts per day it gets, if you can't stand the people there, if the manner of conversation doesn't appeal to you, or if the regular topics of conversation get on your nerves, it probably isn't going to end up being a positive experience.
So... yeah, this is a pretty nice place. Stick around a while, and I think you'll end up agreeing with me.